I live my life by two rules. I don’t care what other people do with their lives if it doesn’t hurt people. And the most important one, treat other people how I want to be treated.
Who am I to say what’s right/wrong? If it works for you. Screw it/him/her/them. Do it. I don’t understand why people feel the need to police other’s actions.
From a chat with a friend last week:
S’true, though. You want to be a better person, you live your life hurting nobody, and you don’t worry about things that don’t hurt you. If everyone else did that, imagine all the free time the world would have.
Simplistic? Maybe. But I don’t waste my energy hating people or trying to change who they are.
No one is entitled to your time, and you can stop at any point you feel yourself running out of energy.