{"id":737,"date":"2012-09-12T23:06:10","date_gmt":"2012-09-13T03:06:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/peroty.com\/blog\/?p=737"},"modified":"2012-09-12T23:06:10","modified_gmt":"2012-09-13T03:06:10","slug":"control","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/peroty.com\/blog\/thought-about\/control\/","title":{"rendered":"Control"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Do I still wrestle with money? Absolutely!<br \/>\nDo I still have days where I wonder where it all went? For sure!<br \/>\nDo I still often think it would just be easier to buy the nice things I want and let the future sort itself out? Embarrassingly, yes.<\/p>\n<p>Getting our financial house in order has taken a lot of work. And recently, when my car died and my wife&#8217;s car needed some costly repairs, it wiped out nearly every cent we had saved.<\/p>\n<p>**Nine months of hard work, gone in an instant.**<\/p>\n<p>It was devastating to see all of our hard saved money evaporate into a new car. Sure, it&#8217;s nice to have a new car that runs well and has air conditioning, but we weren&#8217;t planning on spending the thousands to make that a reality for a couple more years. It just goes to show, you never know what life is going to throw at you, or when. And it pays to be ready.<\/p>\n<p>I have learned a lot since we paid off our credit cards, got student loans under control, made a plan to pay off medical bills and started savings a large part of our income while donating another sizable portion every month.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s been a long road and it&#8217;s nowhere near over.<\/p>\n<p>Financial control is a journey, not a destination. There is never an end to the struggle and saving. There is never a point where the money starts replicating itself tenfold and all your worries are gone.<\/p>\n<p>Keeping your finances under control is an ongoing endeavor and one I&#8217;m happy we&#8217;ve done.<\/p>\n<p>There is an amount of peace and security that comes from saving for the future. I&#8217;m a calmer person knowing there is money going into savings every pay check.<\/p>\n<p>I am happy to contribute to my 401k and pay Future Carl. He is going to appreciate the efforts of Present Carl one day.<\/p>\n<p>I am happy to be able to pay down our debts and student loans. I am happy I know we have the money to live comfortably while making this happen.<\/p>\n<p>I am happy we&#8217;re able to donate 10% of our monthly income to the church because I know it goes for good things. I don&#8217;t care where you stand on religion. I&#8217;ve been on both sides of the debate in my life.<\/p>\n<p>But for now, I am happy where I am. I feel the religion I am living is mostly in line with my views. I am part of one fo the largest humanitarian aid organizations in the world since the church has a worldwide network of people and communication in place ready to act and serve when the need arises.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t think there was any way we could contribute to a 401k, put aside money in savings for ourselves and donate to the church every month. <\/p>\n<p>But we do. We can. We are.<\/p>\n<p>And I feel better because I know where my money is going and I know what it&#8217;s being used for. Can I afford to buy myself new gadgets, games and other toys at will? No.<\/p>\n<p>But I know the difference I am making in my life as well as the life of others is well worse the sacrifice and hard work.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do I still wrestle with money? Absolutely! Do I still have days where I wonder where it all went? For sure! Do I still often think it would just be easier to buy the nice things I want and let the future sort itself out? Embarrassingly, yes. 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