{"id":539,"date":"2012-06-15T08:00:09","date_gmt":"2012-06-15T12:00:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/peroty.com\/blog\/?p=539"},"modified":"2013-12-26T14:38:25","modified_gmt":"2013-12-26T19:38:25","slug":"marriage-overturned","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/peroty.com\/blog\/wrote-about\/marriage-overturned\/","title":{"rendered":"Marriage Overturned"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The United States of America held a vote last night and all heterosexual marriages and no longer valid in the country. As of this morning, no marriage is legally recognized.<\/p>\n<p>What does this mean? It means you&#8217;ve lost <a href=\"http:\/\/www.hrc.org\/resources\/entry\/an-overview-of-federal-rights-and-protections-granted-to-married-couples\">all these rights<\/a>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<p>No more health benefits for your spouse. They better get on their own insurance at work? Oh, they stay at home? Well, better go out and buy insurance.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>No more visitation or decision-making rights if they are hospitalized, you&#8217;re not really family after all.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>No more tax benefits. Time to start filing separately.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>No adoptions. It&#8217;s not right for a child to grow up in a home like that.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>Prepare for more harassment at school and the workplace (if you got a job) because it&#8217;s not a hate crime to harass and bully you for being you.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>This is your new reality. This is the world you&#8217;ve awaken to. This is everyday.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is not the world heterosexual couples live in. This is not reality for many people. But it is reality for same-sex couples. This is the life they life in and the unjust system they live under.<\/p>\n<p>Just as African-Americans won the right to vote, the <a href=\"http:\/\/life.time.com\/history\/love-supreme-an-interracial-romance-triumphs-in-1960s-virginia\/#1\">right to marry<\/a> and even to be <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Three-fifths_compromise\">considered people<\/a> many years ago, the same battle is taking place across the country and in the world now.<\/p>\n<p>For homosexual couples, they face the same legal and moral battles African-Americans faced and still face in parts of the world (and our country) today.<\/p>\n<p>I look forward to the time when we look back on the ridiculousness of same-sex marriage (and even using that term) that we do on interracial marriage.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not right to deny people the rights and joys of marriage because of an arbitrary reason such as skin color of sexual orientation.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The United States of America held a vote last night and all heterosexual marriages and no longer valid in the country. As of this morning, no marriage is legally recognized. What does this mean? It means you&#8217;ve lost all these rights. No more health benefits for your spouse. They better get on their own insurance [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[291,243,348],"class_list":["post-539","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-wrote-about","tag-equality","tag-marriage","tag-rights"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/peroty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/539","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/peroty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/peroty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/peroty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/peroty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=539"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/peroty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/539\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1506,"href":"https:\/\/peroty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/539\/revisions\/1506"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/peroty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=539"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/peroty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=539"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/peroty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=539"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}